Things people quietly wonder before reaching out.

Is this a dating service?

No and that distinction shapes every decision we make. Groups are sized to prevent pairing energy. Matching criteria focus on values and openness, not attraction. Platonic intent is non-negotiable.

What if I feel nervous going in?

Good that means you're paying attention. We design the first few minutes knowing they'll feel awkward. The structure exists precisely so you don't have to perform ease you don't feel yet.

How is my privacy protected?

Your intake form is read by one person and stored securely. We never share your details with other members without your consent, and you control how much personal information you bring to any gathering.

How large are the groups?

Gatherings are kept to three to five people, and can expand depending on clients need. Small enough that nobody disappears into the background, large enough that no single conversation carries the weight of the whole room.

What if the match doesn't feel right?

Tell us. Rematching is a normal part of the process, not a failure. A human reads your feedback and adjusts, no algorithm deciding your next group based on a star rating.

Is the cost worth it?

We charge enough to operate carefully and stay small. The fee covers human curation, guided facilitation, and the time it takes to read your form rather than run it through a filter.

Who is eligible to join?

Adults 18 and older who live in British Columbia and are genuinely open to meeting new people. We ask for compassion and honest intent not a particular background, age bracket, or social style.

Can I join with a friend?

You can mention it on your form, and we'll do our best to place you in the same group. That said, arriving separately often makes it easier to meet people on your own terms.

A real person will read your message.

If something isn't answered above, write to us. We reply promptly, and we actually read what you send.